Bondage

SFCityDom (c) 2007

I have written about bondage in previous entries and most of my fiction includes some bondage. I enjoy it on many levels. The physicality of tying someone up. You need to be right next to their skin. The sent of flesh and sex and hemp is a very intoxicating mix. There is the visual appeal of  someone bound and contorted by some nice tawny colored rope. And there is all the fun you can have teasing her: poking, prodding, rubbing, licking, and penetrating.

What do you get out of bondage?

Do you prefer rope or restraints or cuffs?

Do you like being poked or prodded or rubbed or licked or penetrated while bound?

How do you feel while bound? Safe, scared, aroused, thrilled, excited, or all of the above.

Have you every tied yourself up and masturbated?

If you don’t like bondage why?

I look forward to reading your replies.

-Matthew

Comments

[Thursday's Child]

What do you get out of bondage? I love the feeling of being bound and immobolized. Sometimes I need the bondage to submit to things that I'd otherwise run away from, like forced orgasms.

Do you prefer rope or restraints or cuffs? We use both. I like rope for the aesthetic quality, but lately we've been using cuffs for their convenience. Also, it's hard for us to find ropes that I can use - I'm allergic to hemp.

Do you like being poked or prodded or rubbed or licked or penetrated while bound? Definitely! I love all of that while I'm bound. There's something delicious about struggling and knowing that you can't get free and away from the stimulus.

How do you feel while bound? Safe, scared, aroused, thrilled, excited, or all of the above. Usually aroused and excited. Halfway through our sessions, the feeling gets overwhelming and I start to get scared and slightly panicky -sort of a what have I gotten myself into?

Have you every tied yourself up and masturbated? No, I don't really do self-bondage.

[oatmeal girl]

I’ve been trying to formulate an answer to this, but find it hard to pin down my feelings – probably because I wasn’t totally there. My experience is very limited, as in the 7 months we’ve known each other the Academician and I have spent only one 3-day weekend together, the first in-person BDSM encounter for either of us. But the intensity of my bondage adventure was so great that we can’t wait to try it again. (5 more weeks…!)

We each had long-standing fantasies about tying (or being bound to) a bed, etc. But in fact we never got to that. He had become interested in rope play, and had been studying videos and practicing knots, eager to try out his brand new hemp ropes. Mmmm…. what a lovely smell… His goal was to bind me into a body harness, and at first it all seemed rather weird, like a Boy Scout project with me being part of the raw materials. He went through the steps very deliberately, explaining as he went along… and then suddenly I was no longer completely there. I wasn’t that far into subspace that I was totally gone, but the photos he took show that I was not quite moored. And it felt amazing. A sort of peacefulness, serenity, safety, released from any responsibility, VERY owned with that being an extremely positive and comforting feeling. I was obviously very aroused, as I left a sizable wet spot under me, but that wasn’t paramount in my mind – OK, nothing was, really, I wasn’t focused enough for that. He probably pinched my nipples, hard, because he likes to, but honestly I can’t remember.

I’ve never tied myself up and masturbated, but being tied up and taken advantage of has been a masturbatory fantasy since I was in my pre-teens, a long time ago, at which time I didn’t know enough about sex to realize what the next part of the fantasy was supposed to be. We still have happy plans for him to tie me to the bed and do awful things to me, but the ropes…. They have a power all their own. What I know he wants is to bind me in a more extensive body harness, dress me over the ropes, and take me out. Except that I doubt we’ll get very far from home - he doesn’t drive and I won’t be in any condition to…

[little one]

What do you get out of bondage? Feeling helpless, loss of control, knowing that he is going to do what he wants when he wants and I can't do anything to stopea him.

Do you prefer rope, restraints or cuffs? To me it doesn't matter, whatever he feels like using at the time.

Do you like being poked or prodded or rubbed or licked or pentrated? God! Yes, that and more.

How do you feel while bound? Safe, scared, aroused, thrilled, excited or all the above. I feel everything but scared, I trust him completely.

Have you ever tied yourself up and masturbated? No, not into self bondage.