Good Girl

It has been my experience that many women enjoy being good girls or at least being called a “good girl.”

Why is this? Do you like being a good girl or do you like being called a good girl?

Do you like being a bad girl and getting a spanking in order to make you a good girl?

Do good girls do all this stuff we enjoy?

I hope so!

What do you think?

-Matthew

Comments

[Kat]

The short answer is sometimes.

The long answer is more like this... I don't think any of us wake up feeling the same every day. To me, it seems as if my energy comes and goes like the tides, sometimes high, sometimes low. Some days I want to be the good girl that sits at his feet, brings him his drink and gives him the pleasure he wants. But some days I want to be the brat that purposely breaks the rules that push him to act. And still other days I want to be reminded completely why this man is the one I should bow to and those are the days that I have to be taken... and usually the nights I get some wonderful tokens to remind me of the night while I sit on the hard chairs in the meeting rooms. Thankfully, my dominant is flexible too.
It has taken ten years, but we have come to understand when the other is up for what. We don't guess, we chat mid day to "check in" on what the other's day has been like and what we might want for the evening.

Reminds me of the Mae West quote... "When I am good I am very good and when I am bad I am even better."

[Blush]

Hi,
I recently discovered your blog and have greatly enjoyed going back and reading some of your past posts.

I personally enjoy being the good girl as well as being called good girl. I think it's more the approval, or recognition of my efforts that thrills me. And 'good girls' get the best spankings of course.

That's not to say that use of "good nasty girl" doesn't have the same effect sometimes.

[fingers]

mine likes good girl or bad girl

[K]

"mmmm That's a good girl. Take all of it. What a good girl you are."

Are you kidding? That is so freakin' hot I can't stand it. There is nothing like being told that you're doing a good job, especially when you're doing something that you want someone to enjoy. If you add a hand gripping the back of my hair and moving me to his rhythm all the better. ;)

[terri]

I like to always be a good girl and told i am one. I never act out for the sake of acting out. In fact, I never act out at all. Maybe that makes me boring, but I recently had the ultimate pleasure of being told that I am Master's perfect slave. That was thrilling.

[Grenadine]

My view? I like to know I've pleased the person that might be calling me a good girl. Now, whether I am literally being a good girl or a bad girl, doesn't really matter as long as he's happy with it. That matters. And genuine praise usually increases anyone's desire to please-- I know I've done SOMETHING right.