Hardcore Romance

Folsom Street Fair

Today was the Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco. If you haven't been you have to see it. A 5 x 2 blocks of kink. These are big city blocks. Lots to see and buy.

Good Girl

It has been my experience that many women enjoy being good girls or at least being called a “good girl.”

Why is this? Do you like being a good girl or do you like being called a good girl?

Do you like being a bad girl and getting a spanking in order to make you a good girl?

Do good girls do all this stuff we enjoy?

I hope so!

What do you think?

-Matthew

Because...Why?

"Because it is a fucked up thing to do."

I heard someone say this in reference to something she enjoyed sexually. She was asked why she liked it. Her answer was "Because it is a fucked up thing to do."

Is there anything you like because it is just so fucked up.

-Matthew

Black Mail!

SFCityDom (c) 2007

A friend kind of got herself into a situation. Seems that a year ago in a moment of weakness (for the lack of a better word) she did some things on a web-cam for a ‘dom.’ The other night while on IM he pops up and starts threatening her with black mail.

Is Everything Acceptable?

SFCityDom (c) 2007

In this world we have created is everything acceptable? In general, I think we can agree, if it is among consenting adults and nothing illegal is going on, it is fine. Legally, you can'€™t give consent to an illegal act. I can'€™t consent to having a limb removed by a non-medical professional.

Safe, sane, and consensual is the mantra in the BDSM community. Consent is really the only term with anything close to a concrete definition. Safe and sane are extremely relative terms.

Blindfold

So, I have a fuckin' cold today. Such fun. I hate 'em in the summer.

Enough of my whining.

You will want a high speed connection to view the rest of this entry. You have been warned!

Blue Tooth In Dungeon

SFCityDom (c) 2007

I hate dealing with people being dicks while using their cell phones. No one in the restaurant gives a fuck about your side of your phone conversation. However, it seems many assholes feel the need to shout at their phones when in public.  I don’t give a fuck that his rash is just jock itch and not another outbreak. This is one that has pissed me off lately, some dumb cunt (and I don’t mean this in any endearing manner whatsoever) slooowly pushing her cart around the grocery store yapping on her cell with some dumb fuck on the other end. Shouldn’t she save that for later while driving so she has an excuse for running someone down in a crosswalk?

PDA!

SFCityDom (c) 2007

I am sitting eating my breakfast at a coffee house and a couple has just sat down at a table opposite me. They must have just spent their first night together, because they are making out in a room full of people. It is rather disturbing. This is not like a couple of hot chicks kissing. Yes. I am completely biased and shallow. However, there is a depth to my shallowness. This is closer to watching my parents make out. Low on the erotic scale.