On Monday the right to marry was finally extended to all consenting adults looking to create a committed union under California state law.
Truly a great day in California and one that was long over due.
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Should a submissive be willing to do everything?
Some simply relish the thought of doing whatever is asked of them. Eat pussy, sucking the cock of strangers, being gang banged by 10 of the dom’s closest friends or just guys off of craigslist. However, is everything required?
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SFCityDom (c) 2007
The above words have overlapping meanings. Teasing can be embarrassing. Humiliation can lead to degradation. Is being embarrassed humiliating? Degrading? We struggle in our daily lives to keep from being embarrassed in polite society. Why do some desire to be teased? Or embarrassed? Or degraded?
SFCityDom (c) 2007
What is consent? Basically, permission for something to happen or agreement to do something.
SFCityDom (c) 2007
There are things in this life that are counterintuitive, the enjoyment of physical pain and orgasm denial to name two. Why would anyone want to be denied an orgasm?
On the face of it, I really don’t understand. I have always been an aggressive supporter of my orgasm.
SFCityDom (c) 2007
A friend kind of got herself into a situation. Seems that a year ago in a moment of weakness (for the lack of a better word) she did some things on a web-cam for a ‘dom.’ The other night while on IM he pops up and starts threatening her with black mail.
SFCityDom (c) 2007
In this world we have created is everything acceptable? In general, I think we can agree, if it is among consenting adults and nothing illegal is going on, it is fine. Legally, you can't give consent to an illegal act. I can't consent to having a limb removed by a non-medical professional.
Safe, sane, and consensual is the mantra in the BDSM community. Consent is really the only term with anything close to a concrete definition. Safe and sane are extremely relative terms.
SFCityDom (c) 2007
I have never cheated in a relationship. To me it is an irrational behavior. If you value the person you are with, why would you hurt them? I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone I didn't value, nor in a relationship where I desired to cheat on someone.
SFCityDom © 2007
Earlier this week someone mentioned slavery in a comment to Don't Think! Feel. I replied with “When you say, slavery what do you envision?”
Here is the dictionary.com definition for slave and the wikipedia definition for slave(bdsm).
Slavery is perhaps one of the most misunderstood terms in the BDSM nomenclature. The use of this term has the potential for a serious misunderstanding. “Oh. That wasn't what I meant.”
SFCityDom (c) 2007
This is a comment that I posted on Romantic D/s I thought it was worth posting an edited version here.
It was an important moment when I realized that I could be caring, nurturing, romantic and dominant. However, there have been women that didn't respond well to the romantic aspect. They saw it as a sign of weakness. That is their issue not mine.
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